I often hear from clients of mine before a portrait session that they're nervous about their appearance. "I hate pictures of myself," they say, or "I'm really not that photogenic."
What usually underlies those statements is a desire to look good--to project an attractive image. It's much easier than you think! But looking good in pictures isn't necessarily about finding the best concealer, choosing the most fashion-forward outfit, or having the perfect smile.
Here are three very basic things you can do to look fabulous in your photos:
1. Go bold with color, daring with your outfit or accessories.
We all have certain pieces in our wardrobe that make us feel good, sexy, fun, or more comfortable. Pick that one thing, and wear it! Or, find something unusual--something outside your normal comfort zone; you'll be inspired to learn how to wear it.
2. Get plenty of sleep, eat well, and drink water.
Looking good in pictures isn't just about the make-up and hair gel; it's the larger ways you take care of your body that contribute to an all-around healthy glow. Making sure you're well-rested and feeling good overall can add a hidden energy boost to that radiant smile of yours.
3. Stop worrying, and fake it 'til you make it!
Relax. If you're one of those people that "hates pictures of themselves," and you're nervous about looking good, the best thing you can do is to push that out of your mind. If you're tense--even just a little bit--that will show up in your pictures!
You may be nervous as all get-out, but take a deep breath. If you don't feel confident, take a deep breath, and just fake it. You could practice strutting in front of a mirror. Try loosening up to some of your favorite dance music to catch an at-ease vibe. It may feel silly, but if you can maintain composure, you'd be surprised that you're pulling it off!
AN ASIDE FOR ASPIRING SHUTTERBUGS
For those who are looking for how to create better images on the other side of the camera, I wrote a basic photography how-to PDF after teaching at Park School Camps. You can download it here!